Who God Gave Me

 There is not a doubt in my mind that God wanted Ben and me to be together. I'm so grateful for our relationship and marriage. He truly is my best friend and encompasses every quality I could ever hope to find in a husband. He keeps God first in his life and strives to be the best husband and dada possible....and he accomplishes that. He is so giving, caring and understanding. Ben has been my unwavering, steady companion through two pregnancies and deliveries that were full of nausea, cravings, stress about needles, compression socks, sleepless nights, body pillows, and aches and pains. And he never complained once as I would vent to him about all of that. Instead, he stood by my side, brought me Lucky Charms and Cocoa Pebbles, and slept on about 1/8 of our bed as I surrounded myself with literally 7 different pillows. Little things like that show me how much he loves me and just how unconditional and selfless his love is.

He is the same in his love as a dad. Ava and Finn are the lights of his life. Ben is an exceptional Dada. He doesn't just play with our babies, he helps in every aspect. Laundry, diapering, feeding, burping, cleaning and bathing are nothing out of the ordinary for him. I love that Ava and Finn have such an incredible role model to look up to.

Ben works so hard for our family and never complains about it. He has three jobs right now and a crazy sleep schedule. If that were me, I know is be exhausted and grumpy; but he is never like that at all.

I don't know what I did to deserve him, but I'm so glad I have him. I am so blessed to be his wife and I love him more than I could ever express. I pray every day that Ava and Finn find a love like this someday and learn to be the best spouses and companions possible. 

1-6-14

Ava (a.k.a. Ava Girl, Ava Baba, Baba Girl) is 20 months old! I can hardly believe it. She will be 2 years old in just 4 short months. She is such an energetic, sweet, fun, and smart toddler. She's been a joy since the day she was born. Ben and I love watching her grow and learn.
She spends her days hanging out at home, playing with toys (and non-toys--tupperware, pots/pans, bags of potatoes, etc.), watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse & Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, and running laps inside the house.

12-23-13

 Our sweet baby boy is already two months old! The time has flown by for sure. At two months, Finley Dean is starting to smile a lot and "coo" at us. He's such an easy baby; only cries when he's hungry. He's definitely going to grow up to be tough as Ava likes to share her toys with him by piling them on him while he's chilling in his bouncer.

I truly can't get enough of my little buddy. His adorable smile just makes my day. I love his little personality already. I'm so excited to see him grow.

Ava Loves to Laugh

Ava is super ticklish and loves to laugh. Ben and I love playing with Ava. Some of her favorite games include: 1) Chase Me Around the House, 2) Chase Me and Jump Out and Scare Me, and 3) Tickle Me.

She also loves to sing songs. Well, what that really means is she likes for us to sing songs to her. Her favorites are: "You Are My Sunshine," "The Wheels on the Bus," "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes," and "If You're Happy and You Know It."

God Sees Us Through...Again

I'm always blown away when I see how God is working in my life. I shouldn't be, because I know He always sees me through...but I'm still in awe. And it happened again today. 

Finley arrived almost 4 weeks early and I didn't even have enough sick days to cover me on his actual due date. This meant two things: 1) I got extra time with my sweet baby boy at home, but 2) I didn't have a paycheck since October. 

We had saved up enough to cover us for the anticipated due date through Christmas, but not much more. Ava had arrived just 5 days early, so we were expecting something similar. Thankfully, Finn came when he was supposed to and allowed me an extra 4 weeks with him.

I know people have been complaining about the snow and weather lately, but it has honestly been an indirect answer to my prayers and has really helped our family. Because of the snow days our school had in December, I wasn't docked any pay on those days. As a result, I received a small paycheck today for the days I worked before Christmas break plus those snow days. My paycheck that I wasn't counting on today was direct deposited this morning and was the exact amount we needed. 

God truly never ceases to amaze me with the ways He takes care of me. I definitely believe that everything happens for a reason, even if we don't know the reason just yet. God is so good

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